Members looking for sex in Southampton, UK

Needing to add some sparkle to my life (and, I hope, to someone else's), I'm interested in both the dom and sub aspects of BDSM, and keen to try new things with a congenial partner.

Slim, with an athletic build, fit and active though regular exercise, I'm looking for a partner or partners with whom to enjoy occasional pleasures, such as bondage and roleplay, ideally in or near Southampton. Ability to hold intelligent conversation would be a bonus. Safety, discretion and responsible behaviour are important to me.