Members looking for sex in Gravesend, UK

I'm 72 years old, living in the Gravesend region. I am NOT looking for a relationship.. I am looking for discreet meetings and mutual beatings. Casual or long term. I am looking for somebody local or within a 15 mile radius.

I like to Be spanked and used to a certain extent. I also like to be restrained and videoed while this is happening to me. I am NOT looking for professional doms, I am NOT a fwb. I just want somebody to spank me, Male/Female/or couples. Is there anybody out there who is willing and able to do this to me. Or am I wasting my time on this web site.