Members looking for sex in Kilkenny, Ireland

Im a bdsm virgin.
I want to explore my sexaulity and this has been on my mind for a long time..I am separated after 30 years of marriage which vas vanilla to say the least...

I'm 49 and wan to know what it's like to be dominated by someone who knows what there doing...
I'm no into pain as such but am willing to try anything once...